Sexual arousal in men: how to understand that your partner is aroused

Sexual relationships are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional explosions that should ultimately cause orgasm.

Signs of arousal in men

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

The nascent desire in its manifestations resembles stress:

• the rate of breathing and heartbeat increases;
• the pupils dilate;
• changes in voice and behavior;
• increases blood pressure;
• muscle tension occurs;
• goosebumps appear on the skin;
• increases salivation.

Excitation process:

1. In men, the main sign of sexual desire is erection of the penis. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. The increase in length is an individual indicator; a small penis increases more during erection. It straightens and becomes hard. The changes that have occurred contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
2. With the transition to intimacy, a man's arousal increases and with it all the body's reactions. They increase heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
3. To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. Discharge appears on the erect penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is a pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
4. Orgasm is the pinnacle of pleasure; it is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by the eruption of sperm. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds can come out involuntarily, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
5. Sperm release occurs due to rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. Start with small portions, gradually increasing sperm volume. After the first tremors, nothing will be able to stop the man from completing his ejaculation. Each ejection is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the area of the head and body of the penis.
6. After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows out of the penis and the organ decreases in size. A refractory period begins during which the man is not aroused even by physical impact on the penis.
7. The refraction phase is the time that the stronger sex needs to recover before a new erection. It has no specific duration and can vary from a few minutes to hours. With age this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at age 20 and after 50 the angle decreases significantly.

Discharge in men when they are excited

Transparent viscous discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of pre-ejaculate. This sticky, colorless liquid is released through the urethra in preparation for sexual intercourse or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication is Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.

A transparent secret performs several functions:

• isolates residual urine in the urethra;
• partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
• lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
• The secretion promotes painless sexual intercourse.

The volume of lubrication varies significantly among men. It can vary from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculate is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Preseminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing the survival of sperm and the chances of conceiving a child.

For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraceptive purposes, the question arises about the likelihood of getting pregnant if the lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that it does not contain seeds. But with repeated sexual intercourse, the residual seminal fluid stored in the urethra ends up in the drain.

Lack or excess lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Each manifestation is individual, there are no rigid models that you have to adapt to. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not related to sexual arousal. A white, fat-like substance facilitates the movement of the head of the penis as it exits the foreskin. But a large buildup of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other problems. To prevent this from happening, you need to wash smegma daily.

How to excite a man

A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth the mere thought of intimacy excites him, with age this will no longer be enough.

To increase a partner's libido, a woman will need specific enhancers or stimulators. It is the nature of males to evaluate visually, so take seductive poses to excite a man, she is wearing seductive lingerie, let her hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of desire from a partner also contribute to the emergence of a mutual impulse.

Various stimuli help to cause arousal in the stronger sex:

• auditory;
• visual;
• olfactory;
• tactile;
• erotic fantasies, films and more.

You need to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.

1. To do this, it is worth studying his habits and preferences in terms of music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire: they can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
2. Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
3. The scent of patchouli oil enhances sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the scent of mandarin, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will appreciate juniper or sandalwood.
4. Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, you need to find out whether your chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
5. For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Some phrases, from subtle hints of intimacy to outright lust, evoke sexual activity in partners. Frankness is suitable when communicating with a known object of passion, and every man will like to talk about sexuality or praise appearance.
6. Touch of varying intensity is a direct path to arousing a partner. Monotony is harmful to sexual activity, to attract the desired man, a woman will have to resort to experiments.
7. You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering various zones and erogenous points. Touching breasts and nipples excites the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations, from gentle caressing, to kissing, to biting.
8. Don't neglect your back and buttocks: here a light massage can end with a delicate caress with your nails.
9. The inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; gentle or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses it is necessary to use not only the hands and lips, but the whole body. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring his tongue will be a real pleasure. The proximity of the partner to the penis, languor and anticipation will quickly lead to erection.
10. The penis is an erogenous zone for every man; its stimulation will surely lead to the peak of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. Touch and tongue stimulation will make your partner forget the whole world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you can give him real pleasure.

Stimulant drugs

Why do men experience a decrease in sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, previous illnesses, age, tiredness and other reasons.

Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will cope with the problem perfectly:

• Leader among stimulant drugs. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, have become a fast and powerful stimulant.
• A drug from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, the active component of which improves erection. The drug does not affect the functioning of the heart and liver and also does not change the composition of sperm.
• A Chinese medicine made from ginseng and deer antler, which has fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release

Sexual arousal does not always end with sexual intercourse. The body, prepared for release from orgasm, remains in an overexcited state. If such situations occur only once, there is nothing to fear; they do not threaten health and potency.

What a man feels when he is aroused without venting:

1. discomfort or pain in the testicles, mild swelling;
2. discomfort in the penis;
3. tingling in the back of the head;
4. lower abdominal pain.

Of these symptoms, testicular pain deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Testicular pain can be a sign of illness. If their size, density has changed or the pain has become sharp and severe, it is necessary to visit a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sexual life. When a man is excited, it is better to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.